Well, later tonight, she showed up online, and I talked to her a bit also.
hakeswill: are you OK?
XXXXX: i'm fine.
hakeswill: I don't like to get involved in other people's business, unless I think there is a major problem
hakeswill: I apologize if my help was not as "helpful" as I would have liked
hakeswill: I hope you got the email I sent to your account, and not (the guy)
XXXXX: i did...
XXXXX: however, your "help" was not helpful at all...
XXXXX: he's dumping me.
hakeswill: well, if what I heard was true, then I am glad for you
hakeswill: just to make sure that this is XXXXX, what was the name of the little death in Discworld? I am thinking this might be (the guy) - this whole thing is making me a bit paranoid
XXXXX: Death of Rats :)
XXXXX: I love Pterry.
hakeswill: XXXXX, I was worried about you, and did what I thought was right
hakeswill: if I made things worse, I am REALLY sorry